Thursday, August 28, 2014

Week 36

We are 36 weeks strong today, and I am feeling the pressure! I still feel pretty good in general, but achey and heavy sometimes, especially in my hips. I believe this means he is "settling" or "engaged," meaning I'm that much closer to getting to meet him :) Even still, it's a little uncomfortable sometimes. I don't think there's any way I will make it to the end of September... but I guess I could. My hips and legs just may be completely detached by then!

Contractions: I have sporadic contractions throughout the day and have begun jotting them down. They're getting stronger but are still fairly painless, lasting about 15-20 seconds. As much as I'm not really looking forward to it, my doctor better perform an internal exam on the cervix Tuesday. That's all I got to say 'bout that.

Exercise: I'm doing all upper body now along with some cardio, which usually makes my hips, legs, and back feel better on rough days surprisingly. I have a love/hate relationship with cardio; I get bored with it unless I'm running one of the routes in my neighborhood. But since it's wayyyyy too hot for this mama-to-be, I've stuck with the treadmill and the elliptical. I can still jog but not for long--mainly because of the constant urge to pee!

Weight: I haven't stepped on my home scale in a  few weeks, and I don't intend to, so I won't know for sure until my appointment Tuesday morning. I've kind of turned my back on the healthy diet I've followed for the past 8 months, but maybe that's not so bad since I can't eat much at all (running out of room!). I've probably put on a few pounds since my last appointment, but I'm alright with that. We are almost done, and it's going to all fall off in the weeks following Vaught's debut! At not quite 34 weeks, I had gained just a little more than 20 pounds... I'd say that's a pretty good accomplishment for this mama!

Highlights

I used my birthday coupon from Victoria's Secret for a few pair of new-mom-friendly undies and some sweats. When I saw these black sweatpants I couldn't help but picture myself living in them for the first few days of Vaught's life. They're going to the hospital with me too!

 
The husband and I are paid up on our bills through the end of September and some through October. This was a HUGE weight off our shoulders!

I also got Vaught's circumcision procedure paid for, which is something they recommend you do by 36 weeks (apparently the price goes up if you don't). I don't mind sharing, so for those who may be curious it is $225 at our hospital.

Up Next

It is Labor Day weekend, and Eric and I are going on a date... No clue what we're going to do yet, but we figured we deserved one last night out, just the two of us. I kind of hope a movie and some popcorn are in store, but we'll see.

Ole Miss Football starts... TODAY, and I've been pumped all day. I used up the battery on my phone before two o'clock just reading stats and predictions on the game tonight! My blood pressure is about to be all over the place. Any Ole Miss fan will tell you that it's not healthy being one of us :)

My family shower is next Saturday, and I'm so excited to see everyone and get a few last minute gifts for Vaught. Hopefully he'll hold off until then, but I totally wouldn't mind if he didn't.

Bump Photos

Yes, I cut  my head off. Looking a little ratchet this afternoon.

Did I just use the term "ratchet?"


35 weeks + 5 days Tuesday.

I guess you could say I'm a little anxious to have him here. Pregnancy has been so good to me, and it's flown by. I'm so thankful that things have gone as well as they have, but I'm ready to meet our little guy. I feel like I've been waiting my whole life to meet him. I know being a new mother will be tough sometimes, but I also know how worth it it's all going to be, and I am so looking forward to the journey.

Sunday, August 24, 2014

Game Predictions: Ole Miss 2014

Quick disclaimer: I am not a football analyst, so don't expect super accurate statistics and other crazy numbers. I am a woman who loves college football. I am a devoted Ole Miss football fan. I mean really, I'm naming my son Vaught. One thing I love about my passion for Ole Miss football is that I am not what my husband and I refer to as a "committee fan." Now, there's nothing wrong with being this type of fan. It simply means that you know whether or not your team won their most recent game... and that's about it. You are not staying up every night and waking up early on Sunday morning to watch ESPN or the SEC Network's pre-game/post-game reviews. You don't read the mile-long reports after each and every game your teams plays, noting what did work, what didn't, what went wrong, what your team did right. That's okay. You can be a fan of something and not be "all up in it" in a sense. There is nothing wrong with that! But I pride myself on being a true fan. I bleed red and blue. I'm not ugly or offensive about it, but I know that my team, my school--The University of Mississippi-- is the greatest team, the greatest school in America.
 Just like you know yours is.

You get me, right? Okay. Just had to be sure.

August 28th vs Boise State in Atlanta: A few years ago, I might have been worried. Boise State had a great football program, but they've fallen in the last few seasons. At the end of the 2013 season, Ole Miss held a national record for the most bowl wins, claiming 23 wins of the 35 bowl games they've played in team history and six consecutive wins. This says a lot about my team, including that the Rebels play well in neutral territory. In addition to the slight downfall of Boise State's program, I like that we're playing in Atlanta. I'm going to say it's a win.

September 6th at Vanderbilt: For the second year, we play at Vanderbilt. Although I was thrilled with the season opener victory last year, I hated watching that game. Honestly, the win should not have been that close (39-35), as Vanderbilt is another program that's never been inherently "good," though they have definitely risen in the last few years. Even still, I just feel that they don't compete as well as part of the SEC. Among other things about this team, they have a new head coach. I'm calling this one a win... let's just hope it's significantly better than last year's, points-wise at least.

September 13th vs Louisiana-Lafayette: This is our first home game. Have you ever been in Vaught-Hemingway for the first home game? Or any game for that matter? If not, you're missing out. The Rebels will be on fire. Win. All day.

September 27th vs Memphis: Yet another home game. Memphis's football program hasn't thrived in several years, and I do not expect this year to be any different. Win.

October 4th vs Alabama: This is where it gets interesting. Goodbye to A.J. McCarron (I actually really like him), and the Tide is left without a quarterback--or at least not one with very much game time experience. In addition, they lost several key players to the draft and graduation. Last year, we were expected to win. People made a huge ordeal out of it, but I still kind of knew it wasn't going to happen. Not in 2013. But 2014? With every year, at least in the Freeze era, I feel that the Rebels become more and more powerful. I believe that our "big year" will be 2015, but who says we can't accomplish big things this year? We play Alabama at home for the first time in three years; our last victory versus the Tide was in 2003. Alabama is a power force, they really are. And I acknowledge that and respect it. They're an outstanding team. However, if there's going to be a big upset this year, it will be on October 4th in the Vaught. I'm stepping out on a really shaky limb here... But win.

October 11th vs. Texas A&M: Seriously, the last two games (2012,2013), were won by A&M by the skin of their teeth (I think that's the correct expression.) Without Johnny Football, they are nothing (he'd probably get sexually excited if he read that--gosh, I can't stand him). The third time will be the charm for the Rebs. Win.

October 18th vs. Tennessee: Again, another program that used to so great! I remember the years when Tennessee being a force to be reckoned with! But in the last few seasons, not so much. In addition to that, this is Homecoming for the Rebels. Win.

October 25th vs. LSU: If you weren't there for this last year, you missed it. People who hate dislike Ole Miss were talking about it for weeks--well of course they were-- everyone was! I don't see how ESPN did not include this game in their Top 25 a few weeks ago! This was incredible. I was screaming, laughing, crying, jumping up and down with my husband. This was the game of the season, in my opinion. However, moving forward... LSU is ready to reclaim their dignity. They're a brutal team, quite possibly the most brutal in college football. They're mean and a little bit psychotic in my opinion. They're looking for redemption. And revenge. Seeing as how we are playing in Death Valley this year, I believe they'll get it. It's hard, but I am deeming this one a loss.

November 1st vs. Auburn: It's not as much to do with them as a team as it is Gus Malzahn. I have a lot of respect for that man as a football coach. They're going to be a power house as long as he's there, and I feel that they're looking for another shot to play for a national championship. Loss.

November 8th vs. Presbyterian: WHO? Like I had to Google this team and found them on the second page. Win.

November 22nd vs Arkansas: Really? We smoke whole hogs where I'm from. Pig whoooie???? Win. But for real, Arkansas is trying really hard, they are. But they won't be there for a while. We all have to suffer now and then.

November 29th vs. Mississippi State: I guarantee many of you skipped all the above to get to here. That's understandable--the Battle of the Golden Egg is among the most popular rival games in the nation after all! In 2012, my husband and I were on our way back from Meridian the Saturday of this game. We were 10 miles from the Batesville-Oxford exit on I55, when he turns to me and says, "Baby... let's go to the Egg Bowl." So we ended up in Oxford where we scored tickets for $40 and watched the Rebels mow over the dogs for the first time in three years. It was amazing. But I said it then, and I think it's going to stand true: "For the next two, maaaaybe three years, the home team will win the Egg Bowl." And what do you know? The dogs claimed the trophy in Starkville last year. Now, that was a bit upsetting; I really thought there towards the end the Rebels had a chance, though both teams played horribly, and we all know it. Had Prescott not been put in for the bulldogs, I truly believe the Rebels would have taken home the Egg. This year, the Egg Bowl is in Oxford, and I have to say that I think it will be a fairly easy win for us. For a game like this, the home team always has a major advantage. I read in 2009 that the home team will win the Egg Bowl 8 of 10 times. Mississippi State has the better quarterback--or at least they did at the end of the season last year. But we've got a stronger defense, possibly the strongest in the SEC this year according to ESPN's analysts, and a more powerful offense. I really hope Bo Wallace is as good as he is predicted to be this year. If he can pull himself together, the Golden Egg will be back where it belongs--with the Ole Miss Rebels, making the overall record 62-43-6... Oooooole MISS. Win.

The Rebel in me wants to believe that we really can achieve a 10-2 record. But the Rebel FAN in me knows how tough it will be. If not 10-2, my next bet would be 9-3, and I only say that because the Rebels have a horrible habit of "choking" in important games. Any Ole Miss fan will tell you that being one of us takes a good several years off your life, but I love games like that. Even with this sweet baby coming, I'm looking forward to some good football starting this Thursday in Atlanta.

Are You Ready?



Thursday, August 21, 2014

Week 35 Update

 


     So, I did decide to do an update for week 35 today, but it is going to be rather short. Above is one of our lovely maternity photos with Angela Ammons from two Saturday ago. She sent us a sneak peak album; they are gorgeous! Well, most are, haha! Their meaning is beautiful at least. I'm going to her house to pick and choose and order tomorrow and am so excited. I can't wait to have a few in Vaught's room.

     Vaught has been really active this week and was especially so today. I actually halfway thought that something big was going to happen this afternoon; the Braxton Hicks are getting stronger and stronger! Still not painful, but they often stop me in my tracks and I'm like "whoa!" I still went and worked out tonight (I've been going four times a week for the past two weeks--yes!) However, I am officially done with lower body, aside from some light squats. My hips and back are nearly kaput; I have perfected the pregnancy waddle because of it. I think it's kind of cute :) My husband comes to the gym with me and has me do back, chest, shoulders, and arms, and of course a little cardio. I still feel great and am hoping to work out until the day Vaught arrives!


     We rolled the bassinet over to our side of the bed, as part of our "training the dogs for baby" exercises we've got going on. It made it all the more real! I cannot wait to have Vaught here beside us. I'm likely to be the mother with her arm in there all night, holding his sweet little hand. Okay, I have to stop! But can we talk about Lola??? She sat there and looked over in it like, Okay... I'm not quite sure what this is. Mom?? She stuck one of her paws down in it, just feeling around. I know we probably should have said "No!" but it was too cute! We will from here forward, but I think it's good to let them explore a little. Chance and Anabelle want nothing to do with it, but part of the training is giving them time to come around on their own. They're getting so good with being calm and quiet in the baby's room--I have no doubt they'll be great siblings!

      We've also got the car seat set up and ready to go; we each have a base in our vehicles, so it will be easy to move him around. And as of tonight (with those crazy contractions I was having), I've officially got our bags packed and ready for the hospital in Eric's truck! We are ready whenever he is!

          Bump Photos

        I just have one from earlier today.  My mom got this pretty navy dress for me, on sale from Target's maternity section. She got it for me to wear to the first Ole Miss game. However, I may not make it that far! And with Eric's promotion at work (not the full good news from yesterday but definitely part of it!) he is likely to be working a lot of Saturdays again starting in September, so if he can't go we are probably selling those tickets. It seems like we're going to end up selling a lot of our tickets between work and baby, but it's all worth it :)


      Up Next

The Ole Miss game predictions blog will post Sunday evening. Ole Miss football starts in SEVEN DAYS!!! Look for the week 36 update next Thursday :) Have a safe, happy weekend!!!

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Some good news and a very bad idea...


     My husband proofreads a lot of what I post on here, giving me ideas on how to make it better, more interesting, more concise, etc. Often, however, he'll say, "Delete this... That's too much information." Ha! Yes, although I claim to be a private person, I am pretty much an open book when I'm comfortable, and I must say that I'm quite comfy in the blogosphere! I love sharing my life and what I'm going through with you all. I have a pretty big audience of people I know and trust, and I really don't mind giving you all an inside look at my life.

     With that being said, I cannot go into very  much detail about the phone call I got from my husband today, but I will say this: it was much needed, prayed for, and it is the perfect proof of God's Word. In Luke 12:22-34, Jesus instructs his disciples not to worry... about anything. He tells them not to worry about the clothes they'll wear, food they'll eat. He basically says, "I'm going to take care of it." And He did and still does for us as Christians. It's so hard for me to wrap my mind around sometimes, but God truly does not want us to worry about anything. If we hand it all over to Him in good faith, He will take all the worries and stress off our shoulders, gladly. It's a hard thing to do, as I'm a bit of a control freak who wants to figure everything out and fix it all for myself. I have to remember that God's timing is a hundred times better than my own. His plans overcome any that I could dream up for myself; I just have to be patient and trust in Him.

     Eric called me during his lunch break and gave me the best news we've gotten in a while, aside from knowing that Baby Pace is healthy at every appointment! I began crying quietly at my desk. I had to excuse myself to the restroom, where I got down on my knees and just thanked God. Sounds really dramatic, I know, but have you ever had a prayer answered after feeling so hopeless? It's an incredible feeling--of both relief and God's love.

     I have no worries now, no fears. I am constantly being shown that His timing and His plans outweigh my own tremendously; I just have to be patient and pray. When nothing in this world is for sure, we know He holds the future; what a comforting thought!

And now, for a little light hump day humor on this lovely (and HOT) Wednesday...

     Be honest: unless you've had a baby recently, been invited to be part of the audience when a woman has done so, or have an occupation in which you see it multiple times a day, you've probably not watched a birth since that horrible day in health class when you had to sit through a video from the 80's of the whole ordeal, squirming uncomfortably in your seat as you try not to laugh/vomit/die of embarrassment. Yeah, that's definitely me, my husband too. So, we were laying in bed Monday night, I'm playing around with the blog a little bit, when suddenly I have this big, bright idea.

You already know what's coming.

     I had the Internet, a wealth of information, right there in front of me, so I say to my husband, "Babe! Let's watch a birth video!" Did I really want to do this in the first place? No, not really. But seeing as how I'm about to go through all that myself, I figured I needed to. And my husband definitely needed to. I was halfway hoping he'd argue with me and say no, but surprisingly he agreed. So I found a video with a woman named Lisa (if you've Googled this, you've probably seen it too), and we proceeded to watch as she gave birth to a baby girl.

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      I cannot kid you; these are our exact expressions after watching the five minute video. During certain parts I was pulling that sheet over my face, shaking my head saying "Oh no, no, no, no, no." I really think I was more mature as a tenth grader watching a birth video than I was as a pregnant, twenty-three-year-old adult. Coming from the girl who loves any movie written/directed/produced by Eli Roth or Quentin Tarantino, you'd think that watching someone have a baby, donned a "beautiful experience" by most people, would be nothing compared to my taste in horror films. But that was definitely not the case.

     I think it was a really bad idea. The whole labor and delivery process doesn't bother or scare me at all, but I don't think it was necessary for me to watch someone else's. It's kind of like the fear of roller coasters I had when I was younger; I didn't want to watch a friend ride it first. Just get me on there and let me do it! And I do think it is beautiful, especially to the new mom and dad and family members who may be present. But seeing a stranger give birth didn't leave me with fluttery butterflies.

     Despite the trauma, I have no doubt that I'll handle it just fine, especially with Eric by my side and an even stronger power in control. I've got a great team behind me, and I am not afraid. I'll be fine, Vaught will be fine, and no matter what happens it will be the best day of our lives, welcoming him into this world.

     No, watching a birth video definitely was not the best idea! But on the bright side, I know a little more now about what I can expect to happen, and I suppose that is one good thing that came out of it. Do I need to add that I did tear up a little when she was handed her baby for the first time?? I cannot wait to hold Vaught in my arms!

    
      We are 35 weeks along tomorrow, and I still can't decide if I'm going to do a bumpdate or not... If I do, it will be short and sweet! Check back or stay updated on the Instagram :)


Hope you all had a happy happy happy HUMP DAY.



Sunday, August 17, 2014

A Room of His Own

FINALLY, it's finished! Now all we need is a sweet baby to put in it!
I enjoyed putting this room together more than I can tell you. It began with a complete clean out sometime in April and is now the perfect "Ole Miss nursery" for our little Rebel. Would you believe me if I told you the original goal was not to make this room 100% Ole Miss?? Probably not. But I am so glad it turned out the way it did. Vaught will love it! It is the perfect representation of me and his dad and our family; we love Ole Miss! In a few years, he may be really into John Deere tractors or Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, so we may have to completely transform his little space, but for now, a Hotty Toddy nursery it is :)

Mr. Pace and I live in a single story, 3-bedroom 2-bath home in North Mississippi. We love our little town and our neighborhood; although we don't intend to carry out our lives here, it's a great place to be with a little one for now. We hope to purchase land (possibly behind my parents' home on some of my dad's property) and build a house within a few years--all in good time, of course.

Vaught's room is what I refer to as "the middle room" of our house and was formerly the "Phi Mu room" that housed much of my Ole Miss and sorority memorabilia that I refused to get rid of. Upon discovering we were pregnant though, I made myself throw out and give away some things in order to create a special place for our little one. I really love this room because it's the most spacious bedroom in the house, and I love the big window. This room could not have turned out any better; I'm so proud of it!

From Mom and Dad's Room...

I'm registered for a nice baby monitor, but if we end up without one, I'm not too worried, for Vaught's room is not far away. I've actually read a lot of articles about the things you do and do not need with a new baby, and a baby monitor is usually listed on the "do not need" list. When baby's crying, you'll hear him! And I know I'm going to be the mother who sneaks in to check up on him a few times a night when he does start sleeping in his room by himself.


Fifty Shades of Grey

After the big clean out came selecting a paint color.
Previously, it was a tannish/beige, which the previous owners also used in the other two bedrooms. I really like this color in the other rooms, especially in our master bedroom since we've done lots of blues, browns, and neutrals in there. But I knew I wanted something different for our little one. Before I even knew if Baby Pace was a girl or boy, I had decided that I wanted a grey nursery. Had Baby P been a girl, I was going to accent with pale pink and mint, and I knew that if baby was a boy, his room would be navy and grey with a little splash of red. I promise the original plan was not to have it completely Ole Miss! But what can I say?! I went to Lowe's sometime in early May and selected several different shades of grey paint samples. I found one that I just knew would be the one. Even after putting it on and seeing how dark it was, it still didn't hit me that it was very definitely too dark for a nursery! My husband saw the sample on the wall and said to me, "You've lost your mind." Turns out I had. I went back to Lowe's and had them mix one more paint sample (I was so tired of being disappointed by the colors being too light or too dark). And I lucked up with Urban Sunrise by Valspar! It was perfect, and my mom loved it so much she has put it in a few of the bedrooms at their house. When it first rolls on, it almost looks like a light, dusty blue, but once it dries it is the perfect shade of grey. No need to discuss the other 49 it seems like I tried. But we can discuss the "oops" I made that's pretty obvious: this room is pretty big, so it took a gallon and a quart to do one coat. The gallon I originally got was a semi-gloss, and I didn't realize that when I went back to get the quart to finish the areas close to the ceiling and touch-ups. So you can totally tell in certain places that I used two different sheens. I can't be too worried about it, though. I'm sure Vaught won't even notice :)

Changing Table




This is one of many things in this room that my mom is responsible for. She is a thrifter and deal-finder and can find anything you could ever want in a junk store for an eighth of the price! She found a Jenny Lind changing table for $20; its only flaws were that it was missing the shelves. I cut the middle support rod off and put a storage chest underneath it that I found for $10--yes, at a junk store. I decided not to cut the bottom one, for it would make the table a little shaky. It looks a little awkward, but I intend to store packs of diapers and wipes at the bottom, so the "hole" is filled :) I got the changing pad cover from the same website his bedding was ordered from, Carousel Designs.


In the first drawer of the plastic chest are diapers, wipes, and old plastic grocery bags. Although I registered for a Diaper Genie (or something like it), I have not received it yet, and I won't be too disappointed if I don't. No one that I've talked to actually used theirs; most of them actually say it was a waste of space on the registry! Instead, my older sister advised me to just keep plastic grocery bags nearby to wrap "dirty diapers" in then just throw them away in the trash bin outside. Sounds like a plan to me!

In the second drawer are newborn and 0-3 onesies. I wanted them here at easy reach for the many times I'll change his diaper and will also need a to change his ensemble!

Glider



The glider, another gift from my mom, was a $40 find at another junk store and looks brand new. You can't even tell it's ever been used (if it even has). I even love the color of the cloth. I thought about refinishing the white, making it dark brown to match other pieces in his nursery... But it grew on me; it's a nice bright pop in a room full of navy. Vaught and I are going to be spending a lot of time in this thing for sure!

Bed



This has actually been mine since I was 12 or 13, along with the other two large pieces you'll see below. I considered disassembling it and storing it or selling it or putting it in my husband's man-cave (meaning he would have had to have gotten rid of his trusty futon), but then I thought of all the nights the baby will be fussy or sick. My husband gets up at 4am most mornings to go to work, so going to bed at midnight, which is hardly what I consider late, to him is like going to bed at 2 or 3 for others. When Vaught's being super fussy at night, I can just come in here and put him in his crib (if he'll even sleep) and I can sleep on my lovely full-size... or stay up all night in the glider with him! When this was the Phi Mu room, the bedding was a bright and colorful, super girly Ralph Lauren quilt with matching shams and throw pillows. I put those away after finding this lovely duvet and shams set at Target for just $11! I bought matching white sheets at Ross to complete the bed. At first, I thought it looked a little nautical, but with an added Ole Miss throw, I think it's perfect! I got the navy throw pillow at Goodwill for $1 :)

Chest and Wardrobe






These were my oldest sister's and were passed down to me somewhere around age 12, so they've been with me for quite a while. Like the bed, I thought about selling them or putting them in storage, but I'm so glad I didn't! These hold a lot and are such pretty pieces; I definitely want to hang on to them a while longer. The wardrobe will eventually host a TV again, but for now I plan to use it for his toys and boxes of diapers. The drawers of the chest are great for clothes, burp cloths, swaddle blankets, and extra bedding. The white things you see are labels that I made so I could remember where I put everything!

Crib




This is by far my favorite purchase so far. I had originally picked out a Graco crib that I thought I would have to order online and have shipped to my house. One day I was in Walmart in Holly Springs when I saw this one. Not only did I immediately like it more, it was a little less expensive. I kept having to go back and look at it, and when my mom wanted to go with me to see and she shared the same enthusiasm, I knew it was the one I wanted in his room. Putting it together is a different story, but I really do love it. His bedding is from Carousel Designs. You won't believe how difficult it was to find plain navy bedding, but that's all I wanted! His sheets are grey chevron from Target (and I also have some plain white and plain grey for when things get dirty). The bedding is a gift from my grandmother, mother, and her two sisters. It was originally pretty pricey (but like I said, the only navy I could find), but they bought it during a Memorial Day sale and got an incredible deal. I was a little skeptical of the crib skirt at first, but I like it now, as it conceals the storage box I put under the crib for extra diapers, wipes, etc :) The two blankets are gifts from my first baby shower; I love all of the blankets he's gotten! They're an item I feel you can't have enough of!

Closet


Self-explanatory, right? Basically, I just have some of his nicer clothes in here, including the nice Polo collection he's obtained, a few toys, his playard, and a hanging organizer for caps, pants, shoes, etc. I've also kept the things he won't be able to wear for a while hung. On the far right you'll see my 50's costume that I got last year and intend to wear for Halloween every year from there forward. I love the 50's!!

Bassinet


The Pottery Barn bassinet, a find by mother of course, is actually in our room. Once he gets here, I'll wheel it over to the side of my bed so he can sleep next to me. I used a blanket given to him from one of my friends on top of his mattress pad. I love the storage at the bottom; great place to keep diapers and wipes for those late night changes!

Panoramas!






My Helper...



I have to give "my helper" a little credit. Lola Katherine is our three-year-old pitbull that we adopted in 2011. If you follow me on Instagram, you've probably figured out that we actually have four dogs, including Lola: three pitbulls and a weiner dog. Of all four, our relationship with Lola is probably the most unique. We rescued her from a tough situation with her original family in Kosciusko; she was just a couple months old when they could no longer care for her mother or her litter. Lola was one of the last puppies left. She was so timid and scared at first, but within a few weeks she came to life and became a part of our hearts. She has been right there with us through everything. Although she can be super hyper, she is the "best" of all four as far as behavior. She was so easy to train and is so ridiculously smart! We taught her to walk right to Vaught's door when we say "Where's the baby's room?" As I've put his room together, she has been right there with me. She lazed around watching as I painted and once I got all the furniture where I wanted it, she always came in to lay on the bed and watch as I moved things around and organized. I love all our dogs the same, I promise, but there will always be something extra special about Lola K. Some people spend years in search of a friend like her-- Eric and I are very fortunate to have been rescued by her.

THANK YOU!

I also have to extend an extra special thank you to everyone who made this room possible. Obviously, my mother is at the top of this list, but I also have décor, blankets, frames, outfits, and other little items given as gifts from my sweet friends and family members. I love each and every one of you and am so grateful for all that you've done for us and for Vaught. Thank you to my husband for the many "little touches" you did, including hanging Vaught's name above his crib. I apologize that my nesting instinct had me working on this room at all sorts of odd hours of the night so you couldn't always be an enormous part of it :) But you should know that you totally are. If not for you, we wouldn't be welcoming this sweet little boy!


Up Next

I feel like it's been forever since I did a nice Sunday night post. I got so busy working in his room yesterday and last night that I wanted to go ahead and post his nursery blog; so many of my friends and family members have been asking to see it for weeks! I hope you all like it as much as I do, even my sweet Mississippi State, Tennessee, and Alabama fans :)

I was so inspired about the game predictions blog I mentioned in my week 34 update, I began writing it that night and actually finished! I let my husband read it, and he loved it! I'm just waiting for the perfect time to publish... Possibly some night this week. Maybe Thursday, when I'll be 35 weeks! I am so excited for Ole Miss football!!!

And speaking of 35 weeks, I may start posting weekly "bumpdates" this week, seeing as how there's no guarantee that I'll make it to 36, 38, or 40. Well, I do think I'll make it to 36 just fine, but after that it's fair game! Everyone seems to think he's coming early... watch him come on October 5th. That would be the cherry on top of a really large sundae! So watch the Instagram (katepace12) or keep checking back.

Thanks for reading!!!!

Oldies but Goodies...

I didn't realize that Blogger keeps track of every picture that has ever been posed on my blog until I was adding all of Vaught's nursery photos and happened to come across these... So, I thought it would be fun to share just a few profile shots from my younger days... You know, proof that I once was kind of cool.

Not really.

A five pound heavier Ginger on my bed at my first apartment :(
Notice the headline of the DM... haha!!!!




My first frat party, y'all :)

 

And just a few more recent ones... Can't believe I recovered all of these!

Our save-the-dates!


wearing red and blue for Ole Miss's first game of 2013 season

with Mr. Pace, former assistant coach for Kosciusko High football, 2011
 

Thursday, August 14, 2014

Week 34 Update

 
This is so very true. I know I've still got 6 weeks to go, give or take a little, but I am so ready to meet him. Even still, I am stopping at least a few times a day to savor some of his kicks and prods, knowing I'll probably miss it one day when he's bigger. Oh no.. Tears.

Six weeks to go, and mama is feeing good. Notice how we've downgraded from the former enthusiastic "great!" At this point, I'll just settle for "good." :)
 
     Right at about week 33, I began accepting the fact that I am truly ready to be finished with this pregnancy; I want to meet Vaught, I want my body back, though he'll still have the reigns over some of it if you know what I mean, and here lately I have really wanted a margarita. I also cannot wait to sleep on my belly again... When I do sleep, that is!

     At my appointment Tuesday, my doctor wanted another growth ultrasound as opposed to checking me like he'd mentioned at my previous appointment. He didn't even bring that up, although I was prepared for it, so I didn't say anything... Well okay, doc, I won't object to you not trying to scope my brain from my nether regions! We've noticed at my last couple of ultrasounds that lots of Vaught's body parts are measuring early--some of them nearly three weeks early! The same is still true of Tuesday's ultrasound, but supposedly the further along you are, the less accurate some of the measurements are. He is now head-down, and he is showing a weight of 5 pounds, 2 ounces. Then again, that's just kind of a guess too! Even still, I just don't think I'll make it all the way to the end of September. But I might! He'll come when he's ready!!

Movement: Vaught's still pretty active, especially when I lay on my side. I can reeeeeally feel him move from the outside, and my mom felt him for the first time Sunday. She's not one of those mothers that's super touchy with her pregnant daughters (or anyone really), but she was so excited to feel him move! I can usually tell you exactly where he's sitting by the poke and prod test, but I cannot tell you if that's a butt or a knee or an elbow poking back! Eric loves to feel him too.

Craving: Fruit, salad, and salty stuff. I swear I could eat an entire family size bag of Lay's potato chips if you let me! But I guess it's good that I'm craving healthy things at the same time.

Weight Gain: Doctor's scale says 22, a gain of 6 in three weeks, but I have eaten like a hungover sorority girl lately. More fruit and even more water for the next few weeks should take care of a little bit of it. But I'm quite proud to be 34 weeks and have only gained 22 pounds. I am giving birth to a future linebacker after all. If I have to set a goal for myself, then it's to not gain more than 5 pounds between now and his birthday. We'll see how that goes.

Stretch Marks: Super light ones that I can only see when I look really close, and those may have already been there from previous growth spurts as a teen. I'm slathering on cocoa butter lotion religiously though! Some women swear by coconut oil. I've also noticed that my belly and skin in general do not itch the way lots of pregnant women describe theirs... (I'm afraid to ever get pregnant again--I have been far too fortunate).

Swelling: VERY little. Sometimes my feet will look a little puffy. The most I have seen them swell was actually last Friday night; I was on my feet and walking around for work most of the day and never seemed to sit down for the rest of the afternoon. I met my cousin for supper (sat down for about 40 minutes for that) then grocery shopped with my husband then cleaned house. Finally, I settled down around 10, and here are the feet.
Not too terrible, right? I've Googled pictures of women who have edema or really intense swelling while pregnant, and I'll just say that I am really thankful, although my doctor did tell me that I could have more swelling towards the end. I've discovered that soaking them in ice water for about an hour a day feels amaaaaaazing. My mom rigged this up for me one day at our office when it was super hot... Okay, so it was only 72 degrees in our building, but that gets warm when you have to cool for two people! Plus my office has a big open window that lets in a lot of sun. Anyway, if you're pregnant, please do this! It feels so good!
And keep drinking that water! I know, the bathroom trips are annoying, but it's so worth it!
 
Contractions: Small ones still (Braxton Hicks). I'll have maybe four or five daily and they last about fifteen seconds.
 
Exercise: I have worked out five times in the past two weeks, including tonight. All four squat racks were taken Tuesday afternoon, so I thought I'd give this other squat station a go (I can't even describe exactly what it was; it looked like something off a Saw movie). Anyway, I hurt my back after about 15 seconds on it. As I was getting off, moaning and groaning about my back, this lady next to me said, "I wasn't going to interfere, but I could have told you that machine probably wasn't a good idea for a pregnant woman." Ugh. I've stretched every day, and it's a bit better, but I probably need to avoid squats for another week. I get a lot of walking in at my job during the day, and last night Eric and I started our walking routine that we'll hopefully do every night until delivery day. We took one of the pitbulls, Chance, who loves long walks! After my workout tonight, I was thinking that maybe at week 36 I would suspend my gym membership for a couple of months. The main thing I enjoy doing in the gym is weight training, and I obviously won't be doing that for a little while once Vaught arrives. We shall see!
 
Vaught's Room: I think I finally have everything where I want it. I have washed and folded/hung up all of his newborn and 0-3 month clothes and a few 6 month outfits and onesies. Some of them are small for 6 months while others shrunk (a LOT) in the washing/drying process. I now know to check the tags to see that most of them should be washed in cold water and dried on cool or hung to dry. I had assembled his playard in his room; however, his bassinet is super light and has wheels, so instead of lugging the playard through the house, I'm just going to use his bassinet while I can. I took the playard down and stored it in his closet for now. We'll probably bring it back out by the time he's a couple months old.
 
Highlights: Last Thursday, we welcomed a new, beautiful little Cooper girl into the family, Miss Kenton Shaw Cooper! She is the daughter of my cousins Josh and Shannon. Congratulations to them!!!
 
 
I rode with my mom to Kohl's earlier this week and discovered these leggings by Motherhood Maternity. Every pregnant woman needs these in her life.  I'll say that I have only taken them off to wash them. Yes, I'm wearing them right now.
 
 
We had our maternity photoshoot Saturday afternoon with Angela Ammons on the Collierville Square; I can't wait to see them and show you all! She did some really neat things with us!
 
Monday was a rather slow day at the office, so Ms. Sandra, our bookkeeper, suggested I create a chart to track our friends' and family members' guesses for Vaught's birthdate and size. It was fun! I was surprised at how many people think he's going to be really early. Nobody seems to think he's going to pass the 25th! We shall wait and see!
 
Last week, I stopped by his childcare center and put his name down... officially! I'm really comfortable with the place we chose; they don't keep more than 20 children at a time, including infants, so they're not overrun with kids. It's super clean and new and the three women who run it are so so sweet. I got to see the infant room, and the whole environment just felt really safe and welcoming. I know it will be hard leaving him the first few times, but I know he'll be well taken care of :)
 
Up Next: Since my cervix wasn't checked at Tuesday's appointment, I know it will be at my next one on September 2nd when I'll be nearly 37 weeks. Can't wait.
 
My next baby shower is September 6th, hosted by my Aunt Wanda and Godmother, Sally. This is the big family shower that all the pregnant women in the family get, so I'm really excited!
 
Ole Miss football kicks off on August 28th against Boise State. TreadwellStillOpen posted this photo on Instagram recently, and it could not be more accurate for me and Mr. Pace. We spend January to August counting down to college football.
 
 
 I still plan on attending the first home game on September 13th. I don't care how tired and hormonal I am, if I can go I am going! And according to my doctor, there's no reason why I shouldn't be able to at this point, but everyone seems to think the baby will be here by then... If he is, then I'll be in attendance by October! Hotty Toddy, y'all!
 

Belly Shots

So, in the last couple of weeks, the belly has reeeeeeally come forward. I am poking way out on most days. I love it though; there is absolutely no doubt that I am pregnant. I'm no longer getting the "Is she or isn't she?" stare from strangers. No, it's quite obvious!
  
                         
 
  This was at work yesterday. I'm all about some Cherish tops (similar to Pikos) and of course my new leggings :)


                              

 
                                
  But is there anything so slimming as black???
 

My husband took these last few this afternoon as I was modeling Vaught's diaper bag that arrived ("See, babe? See how pretty it is? See how big it is? This is just what I needed. This is exactly what I wanted! See, baby?!"). Gotta love the hubs. It is a Skip Hop bag that I have been pining for since February when I found it online. I used two Target gift cards to get it and am so thrilled! It's beautiful! It looks like a bag I'd carry even without a baby :)

A Room of His Own will post in the next week or so, detailing Vaught's nursery that I've worked so hard to put together, plus a blog about all that we're packing for the hospital as we start getting our things together for the big day (or night). It won't be long before we'll be on our way! 
 
As I'm sitting here watching the launch of the SEC Network (yay!), I suddenly got an idea for a game-predictions blog for my team, the Ole Miss Rebels. I am a girl in love with football, but I look at it from a girl's point of view: I know most of the rules, but I still have to tug my husband's shirt at games and ask, "What just happened? Was that a good call? Who got the penalty?" So it would be an interesting blog about football from a girl's perspective... Not too many analytics, but more observations based upon how I've watched my team play for several years now... and what I do know about football. I'm definitely not a pro like my husband! I'll try to post that one soon. And feel free to argue with  me about some of my predictions; I love to talk football :)